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My Dearest Twin Flames,

It has been an age since I last wrote to you, and for that I apologise. The time has slipped by so fast, that I find myself looking around, slightly dazed, wondering what happened to the last decade.

Because for the last decade, I have spent much of my time in love with, and addicted to, my twin flame. Yes, addicted. Because the love I feel for them is a drug, they are my only vice. (Aside from sugar) And it is in no way healthy.

So I wanted to reach out to you, dear flame, and tell you about a course that I find myself doing, that has made me realise that I cannot spend another moment compromising my needs for that of my flame. That I need to find a way, somehow, to move on and find a soul who reciprocates and wants to make my needs as important as his own, who can appreciate my love and support.

Now, I am well aware that I have said this many times before, and I’m not sure how I will be able to do this, but I wanted to mention the course I’m doing, because it is making me really get that it is absolutely necessary.

The course is one by Matthew Hussey, whose videos I have seen over the years, and have always liked his energy. He has a new book coming out, and if you pre-order it, you can get this course for free. I watched his live webinar and there were golden nuggets in there that made me realise that the minimal amount for the book was well worth getting the course. (This link takes you to the replay, the free course offer expires in 2.5 days)

Thanks to ADHD, I have signed up to many a course and never actually watched it, but this time, I have been watching the videos and making notes. Because I need this information to sink in, I need to be strong enough to do this, for my own sake (and for the sake of all those who love me). Because I cannot go into a new decade in this limbo.

And neither should you.

There is so much love, laughter and joy beyond the connection you have with your flame. I know there is for you, because I know there is for me. Please don’t get to 13 years later and wonder what on earth you were waiting for.

Live now. Follow you mission, your passion, your excitement, now.

It won’t be easy, and I have no idea if I can actually do it myself. But I’m rooting for you (and for myself) because you are so worthy and deserving of a deep, true and beautiful love.

It will feel like the world is ending, but it is not, I promise. It is only just beginning, and the world needs your light more than ever before.

Shine brightly, dear flame, I love you.

Michelle. xx

I have written a lot of about Twin Flames in my novels, and I have done many Oracle Readings for those who are seeking, or who are separate from their Flames. I get lots of emails and questions from those who are in pain, and I know that my previous posts about Twin Flame separation get viewed every day.

The pain that comes from being separated from your Flame is something I’m quite familiar with, and I can completely empathise with anyone going through it, and have done many times.

In this post though, I want to focus on what makes a Twin Flame relationship work, and how to perceive the separation differently, so that it is no longer as painful. This post is based entirely on my own experiences, and the information that comes to me when I write, and I hope that it may help other Flames out there.

I have talked about how I feel that the Flames are reuniting because Earth Angels are feeling out of place on Earth and are wanting to go home, where they belong. Being with a Twin Flame feels the same as being home. Therefore, your Flame becomes your home. This is great if you are together, but when there is a separation, it can make you feel like you are homeless. Like you are adrift at sea, like you don’t belong anywhere. And for an Earth Angel, those are dangerous things to feel, because it will make them want to go home to their own realm again, and get off this planet.

The Twin Flame Resurrection

I know that I have felt that way over and over. Like I have no home, I don’t belong. It became easier to cope with over time, after several separations and reunions, but it was still difficult. This year, however, it has changed.

The change has come from a shift in perception. Instead of feeling homeless when separated from my Flame, I am choosing to see my time away from him as an adventure, as a journey that I need to embark on. And that no matter what happens, one day, I will return home to him again. Of course, it helps that we are both still very connected and have reached a stage where we are completely transparent with one another. We don’t hide how we feel, and can still tell each other anything.

Recently, I created a short class in the online Earth Angel Training Academy, about the 3 keys to a happy Twin Flame union. The three keys are needed in all relationships, not just Twin Flame relationships, but I think they are even more important to have in the right quantities in between Flames.

If you are reading this, and you are separated from your Flame, and you are in pain, please know that I and your Angels are surrounding you with love and light, and that you are not alone. It may be impossible at first, to consider looking at the situation in a different way, but when you are ready, if you can change your perception, then it can truly change your life, and give you the energy to focus on your mission on this planet.