I have written a lot of about Twin Flames in my novels, and I have done many Oracle Readings for those who are seeking, or who are separate from their Flames. I get lots of emails and questions from those who are in pain, and I know that my previous posts about Twin Flame separation get viewed every day.
The pain that comes from being separated from your Flame is something I’m quite familiar with, and I can completely empathise with anyone going through it, and have done many times.
In this post though, I want to focus on what makes a Twin Flame relationship work, and how to perceive the separation differently, so that it is no longer as painful. This post is based entirely on my own experiences, and the information that comes to me when I write, and I hope that it may help other Flames out there.
I have talked about how I feel that the Flames are reuniting because Earth Angels are feeling out of place on Earth and are wanting to go home, where they belong. Being with a Twin Flame feels the same as being home. Therefore, your Flame becomes your home. This is great if you are together, but when there is a separation, it can make you feel like you are homeless. Like you are adrift at sea, like you don’t belong anywhere. And for an Earth Angel, those are dangerous things to feel, because it will make them want to go home to their own realm again, and get off this planet.
I know that I have felt that way over and over. Like I have no home, I don’t belong. It became easier to cope with over time, after several separations and reunions, but it was still difficult. This year, however, it has changed.
The change has come from a shift in perception. Instead of feeling homeless when separated from my Flame, I am choosing to see my time away from him as an adventure, as a journey that I need to embark on. And that no matter what happens, one day, I will return home to him again. Of course, it helps that we are both still very connected and have reached a stage where we are completely transparent with one another. We don’t hide how we feel, and can still tell each other anything.
Recently, I created a short class in the online Earth Angel Training Academy, about the 3 keys to a happy Twin Flame union. The three keys are needed in all relationships, not just Twin Flame relationships, but I think they are even more important to have in the right quantities in between Flames.
If you are reading this, and you are separated from your Flame, and you are in pain, please know that I and your Angels are surrounding you with love and light, and that you are not alone. It may be impossible at first, to consider looking at the situation in a different way, but when you are ready, if you can change your perception, then it can truly change your life, and give you the energy to focus on your mission on this planet.