Twin Flame Separation

I have written a lot of about Twin Flames in my novels, and I have done many Oracle Readings for those who are seeking, or who are separate from their Flames. I get lots of emails and questions from those who are in pain, and I know that my previous posts about Twin Flame separation get viewed every day.

The pain that comes from being separated from your Flame is something I’m quite familiar with, and I can completely empathise with anyone going through it, and have done many times.

In this post though, I want to focus on what makes a Twin Flame relationship work, and how to perceive the separation differently, so that it is no longer as painful. This post is based entirely on my own experiences, and the information that comes to me when I write, and I hope that it may help other Flames out there.

I have talked about how I feel that the Flames are reuniting because Earth Angels are feeling out of place on Earth and are wanting to go home, where they belong. Being with a Twin Flame feels the same as being home. Therefore, your Flame becomes your home. This is great if you are together, but when there is a separation, it can make you feel like you are homeless. Like you are adrift at sea, like you don’t belong anywhere. And for an Earth Angel, those are dangerous things to feel, because it will make them want to go home to their own realm again, and get off this planet.

 

The Twin Flame Resurrection

I know that I have felt that way over and over. Like I have no home, I don’t belong. It became easier to cope with over time, after several separations and reunions, but it was still difficult. This year, however, it has changed.

The change has come from a shift in perception. Instead of feeling homeless when separated from my Flame, I am choosing to see my time away from him as an adventure, as a journey that I need to embark on. And that no matter what happens, one day, I will return home to him again. Of course, it helps that we are both still very connected and have reached a stage where we are completely transparent with one another. We don’t hide how we feel, and can still tell each other anything.

Recently, I created a short class in the online Earth Angel Training Academy, about the 3 keys to a happy Twin Flame union. The three keys are needed in all relationships, not just Twin Flame relationships, but I think they are even more important to have in the right quantities in between Flames.

If you are reading this, and you are separated from your Flame, and you are in pain, please know that I and your Angels are surrounding you with love and light, and that you are not alone. It may be impossible at first, to consider looking at the situation in a different way, but when you are ready, if you can change your perception, then it can truly change your life, and give you the energy to focus on your mission on this planet.

 

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A Magickal Adventure…

First Words

Hello! How utterly different life can become in such a short space of time. As I mentioned in my last blog post, it was time to begin a new chapter in my life, as my Twin Flame and I parted ways. I didn’t blog during our last couple of weeks together, as apart from being busy packing and seeing friends before I left, I was feeling quite raw emotionally, and didn’t know how to share that with you without losing it completely. Leaving last Tuesday was one of the hardest things I have done in my life so far, as I know anyone out there who has met their Flame will understand. It took a long time to finally let go, and to drive away. Despite having come back together again in the past, there was a feeling that it really would be the last time we would be together in that way, which made it harder still.

But I did leave, and I made my way to my nan’s house, near Bournemouth, where I stayed the night, then after stowing some of my belongings in her garage, I continued on to Brighton. Despite feeling tired and a bit weepy, I found my way, and managed to find a car park and the place where I had been offered somewhere to sleep for the night. That evening I was invited to dinner by my beautiful fan and now very good friend, Chip Jenkins. We ate and discussed our Flames, and had a very girly evening that went on into the early hours! I presented her with her prize for being such a fabulous distributor for the I’m Here Book Tour, which she was thrilled with.

Brighton Seafront

On Thursday, I started my mission of finding some part-time work that will keep things flowing while I write my next book, and I fell in love with the tiny streets full of independent, funky shops. I met lots of people, including the awesome couple who own and run Chocaffinitea (if you are in the area, you need to visit them and try the reindeer tea!), Hannah, a lovely girl (definitely an incarnated elemental) who works in Lush, a tarot reader in RT Home, Sascha, the psychic lady in Bell, Book and Candle and many others! By the end of the day, I had got myself a work trial lined up, in a little cafe in the south laines. I had also found a possible room to rent, and lined up a viewing for later in the day.

Because I had a few hours before the viewing, I decided to visit Lewes, because there were possible jobs there too, as well as rooms to rent. I had a nice little wander around and had food in Bill’s restaurant. Though Lewes was very picturesque, it just didn’t have the same energy as Brighton, and I decided then that I would rather live in Brighton if it was possible. I viewed the room later in the evening, and after chatting to the landlord for so long, it was getting late so I ended up couchsurfing there!

The following day, I did my work trial, and upon the completion of it was offered a position, which I happily accepted, and because my new boss is such a sweet guy, he offered his currently empty driveway to me as a parking place for my car! Later in the afternoon, I found myself back in RT Home, (after celebrating my new job with reindeer tea first of course!) and chatted again to the tarot reader. While chatting about how I had a job, now I just needed a place to live, the lady who owns the shop, Joni, joined in the conversation to say that she had a room she was renting out that she hadn’t got round to advertising yet. So later on Friday evening, after a tasty dinner in the Harvester on the seafront, I went to Joni’s house to see the room.

Yet again, I was there for so long, that Joni very kindly offered I stay there for the night (having been unable to find a couchsurfing place for the weekend) and so after a crazy little journey to retrieve my car, park it on my new bosses driveway, then get the bus back here, I stayed in the room for the night.

By the morning, I told Joni that if she was happy to have me there, I’d love to rent it.

And the rest, as they say, is history!

My new Home

So in two and a half days, I found a job, a room to rent, and a place to park my car. I was actually quite impressed! I seem to have much more energy here, and things are just flowing so well, I really couldn’t have predicted any of this. It seems that I really have been paddling upstream for the last few months, and now, as I go with the flow, it is all clicking into place.

The spiritual community and writing scene in Brighton seems to be pretty extensive, with events and meetings happening all the time. I plan on attending as many as possible, and really getting involved. In fact, later tonight I will be checking out a writing group, so I will let you know how that goes! Now that my computer is back in its rightful place on my desk, and I have settled in, I will get back to my regularly scheduled blogging!

Wishing you all a wonderful Wednesday! Until next time…